Autoerotism in pregnancy: is it safe?

According to the data presented in the recent essay The pleasure in the feminine. Myths and realities of the orgasmic function of women by sexologists Roberto Bernorio and Milena Passigato, 84% of the 1200 women interviewed said they had masturbated at least once in their life and 50% did it at least once a month .

The taboo of female masturbation has fallen? Perhaps (hopefully!), Even if it is the self-eroticism that remains taboo at a specific moment in women's life: pregnancy. Is masturbating in pregnancy dangerous? Can it harm the unborn child? Is it possible to use sex toys during pregnancy? Here are the answers to these (scabrous) questions.

How pleasure changes during pregnancy

Fortunately the times when the pregnancy corresponded to nine months of sexual abstention are far away. Gynecologists, obstetricians and sexologists agree that, in the case of physiological pregnancy and in the absence of complications, there are no contraindications to the continuation of normal sexual activity .

On the contrary: cuddles, caresses and sexual intercourse help the woman to feel loved (even in a moment of hormonal rollercoasters and physical changes) and the couple to remain united and in love. Moreover, many women feel an increase in desire during gestation, especially in the second quarter, when the nausea and early pregnancy fears are far away and the size of the belly is easily manageable.

The increase in vascular congestion in the intimate parts facilitates lubrication and intensifies sensitivity, and the increase in uterine volume amplifies the perception of uterine contractions during orgasm (always present but less strong).

Masturbation and pregnancy

An essential component of sexuality, solitary or in pairs, masturbation is recommended as much as sexual intercourse . Indeed, even more. As a couple, mutual masturbation is possible even when having sex is difficult or if the future dad feels inhibited by the bump to do "other".

And, by themselves, self-eroticism is a way to feel good about yourself and take care of your pleasure and femininity . Without fear for the baby: the pleasure caused by masturbation causes the release of endorphins, which make the mother feel good and therefore also the unborn child.

Why not make use of the greater excitability due to hormonal changes and the greater ease with which orgasm is achieved during these extraordinary nine months?

Sex toys and pregnancy

And what happens if we add two big taboos, namely masturbation in pregnancy and sex toys? Absolutely nothing unpleasant, as long as you follow the rules of common sense and adopt some particular care, especially in the choice of the sex toy and its use.

We have seen that during a regular pregnancy penetration is not a risk; therefore no obstacle to the use of vaginal dildos, as long as delicate movements are performed. It is better to avoid vaginal vibrators, both rabbit and point G, and above all rotating vibrators: the latter could exert pressure on the cervix, and in general the internal vibrations could favor premature contractions.

Go ahead instead to the clitoral vibrators for external stimulation: in this case the vibrations can in no way influence the peaceful course of pregnancy, if not giving you moments of intense pleasure. Whether you choose a dildo or a clitoral vibrator, it is essential to pay the utmost attention to hygiene : wash your hands thoroughly with warm water and mild soap and sanitize the toy with a specific toycleaner, both before and after use. Enjoy the moment and all that the future as a mother reserves for you!